i.m.o asked: Ok, so a few months back I ended up in the hospital with viral meningitis. After they ran some tests, the dr found out that I had herpes (HSV2) which she said was the cause of the meningitis.
At first I was furious with my husband because of course I had never been diagnosed with this before and I knew that I hadn’t been with anyone for the 6 years we had been together. Well he went and got tested and came back negative, so he obviously did not give it to me.
So that meant that I have had herpes for the entire 6 years my hubby and I have been together and having unprotected sex. Neither of us have ever noticed any type of outbreak anywhere.
From doing extensive research online, the few sites that even mentioned a connection between herpes and meningitis all said that meningitis is usually a symptom of an initial outbreak! How can this be?!
My primary care dr has really no clue about herpes and my insurance has no infectious disease dr anywhere within hours of me. The infectious disease dr that they assigned to me while in the hospital basically told me I don’t need to ask so many questions because it’s not that big of a deal! Her nurse apologized but simply said that is just how she is.
The CDC has a ‘herpes hotline’ but they are only vaguely aware of the connection between herpes and meningitis.
I have so many unanswered questions concerning this:
1. How have I had this for 6 years of unprotected sex with my husband and he doesn’t have it??
2. From what I’ve read, hsv2 is usually genital, but can also be oral. Also, an outbreak will reoccur in the same place everytime. So since I’ve never had any type of outbreak other than the meningitis, does this mean that I will never have any type of genital outbreak, for instance?
*Any other info from someone with experience on this subject is greatly appreciated! This was just all so much to take in. Especially since I have been in a long time monogomaus relationship and we were both tested before being sexual with each other (which, I just recently found out that they don’t test for herpes unless you specifically ask for it!)
Well, thanks in advance!
Wow, sorry this is so long!